Thursday, July 9, 2009
Just a Little Patience
For 15 minutes, I sat beside the Bean as he struggled to put on his socks. I listened to the constant refrain of, “I can’t do it!” while he made half-hearted attempts to slip them over his feet. Bouts of crying were punctuated with the inappropriate giggles of a boy who was obviously tired. It would have been so easy to intervene and put the socks on for him, but I stayed next to him nudging him back on track whenever he tried to procrastinate from the task at hand. Many times he wanted to give up, but with steadfast conviction I refused to let him. I knew that he could do it because, as I told him, “I’ve seen you do it before.”
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Well said, sir.
Now, if you're spending hours on Super Mario, you may want to consider a new hobby, because video games just aren't for you.
Lol@ video game analogy.
But what u said is true. It was the same issue for me and helping my boy wash dishes.
Patience is definitely an issue!
And a virtue!
I often say that my children are teaching me patience - one grueling lesson at a time. :)
But patience lessons from video games - Love it. Very zen. ;)
You, sir, are a Good Dad.
But I do have one question: What kind of Southern Californian are you that your child is wearing socks in July?! My kids haven't seen a pair of socks (unless puppets count) since May!
ZenMom...Trust me, he's a little California kid, who every day asks to wear "short with short sleeves with no socks and no long sleeves."
He wears socks to sleep.
Hmm, love as a motivator instead of shame. I'll have to remember that...
I'm going to save this for when I'm old and sock-putting-on will be just as challenging.
Like how you told this story.
Kudos to you for sticking it out. I like your parenting style.
Speaking of video games, when are you getting the new Punchout for the Wii and inviting me over?
Loved this story. You are a wonderful dad. Just today I spent a good 6 minutes trying to get my 2.5 year old to put the proper croc on the proper foot. As far as dressing goes, the "Flip & Zip" to put on a jacket is my personal favorite. How my little girl's face lights up after a successful flip is priceless. We're still working on the zip...all in good time.
Unfortunately my kid takes forever just to delay going to sleep.
She can put sock on like a Ninja. Just not in front of me.
If there's one thing being a parent has taught me it's patience. Sometimes it's tempting to help them out just to get things done faster. Good for you for waiting with him while he figured it out.
It can be the most frustrating thing watching them puzzle through something, but I think it's important to make them do it. It's that fruit fly like attention span that kills me.
Apparently it's a darn good thing that the skills I learned while playing video games aren't the ones I use to parent. Whenever I had to spend that kind of time learning to time a jump right I almost always ended up using percussive maintenance. Social Services tends to frown on people doing that with children.
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